About Us

The story behind Stathom Fitness

Stathom Fitness is an online coaching company built for gay men who are tired of yo yo dieting, anxious about their bodies, and done with all or nothing plans. We coach strength, real life nutrition, and nervous system tools together, because willpower alone was never the problem.

Our mission
Help men build a body they trust, without turning their life into a fitness prison. Not a 12 week transformation that unravels the moment travel, work stress, or a bad week shows up, a way of training and eating that actually holds up in real life.
We want every client to leave feeling less anxious in their body, not just leaner. That means treating the nervous system as seriously as the workout program, and building routines flexible enough to survive a real life, not just a perfect one.
Training

Smart strength training

Progressive strength work built for a visible, athletic look, not exhaustion. A real plan, not random workouts.

Nutrition

Flexible, real life nutrition

Macros that fit your schedule, travel, and social life. No extreme diets, no meal plans that fall apart the first time plans change.

Mindset

Nervous system tools

Simple regulation tools that stop the spiral when routine breaks, so one bad day never turns into a lost week.

Coaching

Zero shame coaching

Direct, science based support with no judgment. You are allowed to be a work in progress.

Meet Russell

Russell’s path into fitness didn’t start with a six pack. It started with people.

Born in Danbury, Connecticut and shaped by years in New York City, Russell built his career at the intersection of performance, psychology, and real life. He began teaching indoor cycling in NYC in 2008, quickly earning recognition for his ability to coach with precision, empathy, and intensity. That talent led him to Equinox Fitness, where he spent over a decade as a personal trainer, group fitness leader, and later a Master Educator, mentoring instructors and raising the bar for what great coaching actually looks like. Becoming a Master Educator for Stages Indoor Cycling, he was able to refine his educational skills so he could uplevel and expand the tool box of group fitness instructors across the country.

In 2022, Russell launched Stathom Fitness, an online coaching company built specifically for gay men who feel stuck in cycles of anxiety, burnout, and failed weight loss attempts. Drawing from nearly two decades in the fitness industry and his own lived experience, he created The Modified Macro Method, a sustainable approach to fat loss that prioritizes nervous system regulation, confidence, and consistency over restriction and punishment.

Today, Russell coaches clients around the world while living in Hell’s Kitchen, NYC, training at Mid City Gym, and sharing life with his husband, Alper. When he’s not coaching, you’ll find him on two wheels outdoors, refining programs, or hanging with their American Bulldog.

If you’re tired of doing “everything right” and still feeling stuck, Russell is the coach who understands why and knows exactly how to help.

Coach Russell
Coach Russell
Ready to work with us?
Russell coaches directly, and Will Wilson coaches alongside him with the same standard. Meet the team, then apply when you are ready.