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Changing the Lives of Hundreds of Gay Men Online

Get leaner, feel calmer, and look confident AF

No extreme diets. No all or nothing. No hours of cardio. Strength training, realistic nutrition, and nervous system tools that actually fit travel, social plans, and busy weeks.

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Built for real life
If your anxiety spikes when your routine disappears, you do not need more discipline. You need a system that keeps momentum when life gets messy.
You have tried to do it perfectly
and it still falls apart

Travel. Work stress. Social plans. Late nights. The plan breaks, then you blame yourself, then you start over again.

The Modified Macro Method is designed so progress keeps moving even when the week is not ideal.

45 minute workouts
Calories that fit your life
Travel rules that work
Anxiety regulation tools
Results that feel
stable

This is not a crash diet era. You learn how to eat like a grown man, train with purpose, and keep your head on straight when stress hits.

You end up leaner, stronger, and more confident, without turning your life into a fitness prison.

How it works
Simple structure. Real coaching. Clear progression. You always know what to do next.
1

Apply and get a plan that fits your schedule

We map out training, nutrition targets, and the exact moves for travel weeks so you stop starting over.

2

Train for an athletic look, not exhaustion

Workouts built around smart strength progressions so you build visible muscle without living in the gym.

3

Adjust with data so fat loss keeps moving

Weekly check ins and coaching adjustments that keep results coming without slashing calories or adding hours of cardio.

4

Travel rules that keep you consistent

Simple restaurant and alcohol rules so you can enjoy the trip and still stay on track.

5

Anxiety regulation tools for real life

Breathing and nervous system tools that stop the spiral so consistency stays possible on messy weeks.

6

Support that prevents lost weeks

Fast answers and real coaching so small problems do not turn into a full reset.

Anxiety proof results
Real clients. Real bodies. Real lives. Scroll through a few transformations, then hit the full page for more.
Education that makes this easier
Practical coaching content that helps you understand what works, why it works, and how to stay consistent when anxiety is loud.
Nutrition

How to eat out without blowing your week

The exact decision rules that keep progress moving even when you travel or socialize.

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Training

Cardio vs lifting for fat loss

Why strength training changes your body faster even if you hate the gym.

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Mindset

Anxiety and consistency

Simple nervous system tools so you stop spiraling when routine breaks.

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Meet the Founder
Russell Stathom Smith

Russell’s path into fitness didn’t start with a six pack. It started with people.

Born in Danbury, Connecticut and shaped by years in New York City, Russell built his career at the intersection of performance, psychology, and real life. He began teaching indoor cycling in NYC in 2008, quickly earning recognition for his ability to coach with precision, empathy, and intensity. That talent led him to Equinox Fitness, where he spent over a decade as a personal trainer, group fitness leader, and later a Master Educator, mentoring instructors and raising the bar for what great coaching actually looks like. Becoming a Master Educator for Stages Indoor Cycling, he was able to refine his educational skills so he could uplevel and expand the tool box of group fitness instructors across the country.

In 2022, Russell launched Stathom Fitness, an online coaching company built specifically for gay men who feel stuck in cycles of anxiety, burnout, and failed weight loss attempts. Drawing from nearly two decades in the fitness industry and his own lived experience, he created The Modified Macro Method, a sustainable approach to fat loss that prioritizes nervous system regulation, confidence, and consistency over restriction and punishment.

Today, Russell coaches clients around the world while living in Hell’s Kitchen, NYC, training at Mid City Gym, and sharing life with his husband, Alper. When he’s not coaching, you’ll find him on two wheels outdoors, refining programs, or hanging with their American Bulldog.

If you’re tired of doing “everything right” and still feeling stuck, Russell is the coach who understands why and knows exactly how to help.

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